Break free in calendar time

How exciting, you have the whole day, week, and month to plan what you are going to do.

What will you do?

You have no more worries that you had before, like having made coffee the wrong way or folded

laundry not acceptable-those days are over.

Your breakfast is perfect and always has been. You'd been ridiculed for so long about nonsense none

of it even matters, now your making grand plans.

It is fun knowing you can choose how you want to spend your time now. Plan your day the way you

wish to, centered around your job and children (if you have little ones) and a plethora of activities.

The calendar will look different to you now.

It won't look like on Saturday you were locked up, or the food you cooked was splattered all over the

 walls with a police report. You now have newly inked words with positive events, text, fun dinners,

and get- together's scheduled.

You've never seen a calendar quite like this, ever.

A thriving calendar of uplifting, encouraging, loving, and fun times has always been yours- but it

doesn't feel that way when you think of what emotional stress you went through.

After you've been in domestic violence situations, it will be a bit of an adjustment knowing you are

part of the "good life" now.

Wow, can you believe it! You can shop with your friends, go to church, browse the internet, go

places-maybe even a vacation and so much more.

Your time is right now. No more trauma, tears are gone and bottled up by Jesus Christ himself

(wow!). I know you must have forgiven yourself by this time and any others that have harmed you

(that is a tough thing to do)- so the keys to your future have unlocked all these doors for you and

now you are going to see breakthrough after breakthrough, it's incredible.

When I broke free from domestic violence, life did take a bit of an adjustment. I was not used to

making my own decisions very much because he made most of them for me; that's a bad deal. Be

sure others hear your voice; what you say matters. Also, by making decisions on your own, helps

with your confidence and boosts your esteem. Be sure to make choices which are best for you.

Remember, you still have March through December (this year) to make excellent choices and mark

your calendars for the best year ever.

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