What! An attorney meet and greet

Pursuing an attorney who will represent you in court regarding your domestic violence case should have your immediate attention. Searching far and wide for an attorney is exhausting and energy draining.

And, as grueling as it sounds, you have the upper edge to state your case, prove your facts, and ultimately work a deal in your favor which sends justice waves through the circuit.

As if your domestic violence case was not enough win already, right? But, many times women with these type of cases don't go this (file for domestic violence reasons: I didn't because I didn't know) route because they do not know where to start or whom to contact.

How do you find an attorney and what questions do you ask? It's a competitive process as you are searching almost endlessly for an end to the madness while the alleged perpetrator is also doing the same. 

Pick an attorney you believe is best for you. Best thing is to pray for the Holy Spirit to lead and guide you to the right one.

First, you say your budget may not include an attorney for representation, and you want fill the gap. You have the choice to represent yourself  and I know survivors who have done so and have done well. Make sure you have all your "ducks" in a row with connections, networks, good writing and people skills, and know the law. Usually this is not the best option because you have too much going on, but I have seen a few survivors take on this hefty task.

Another option is pro bono.- I understand attorneys do a certain amount of pro bono hours each year and I believe it is required; however, they seek out people or organization to do that work. If a person is struggling financially, I would suggest Oklahoma Attorney Resources (918-742-8883) who charge $70 an hour as opposed to the two to 300 an hour. If a person is not concerned about funds spent, then looking for qualities and start with reviews. One area to look for information is: www.quora.com for expanded explanation. 

Check to see what the attorney fees are, they can be steep. It's best not to scrimp on an attorney so you'll receive the best possible representation. Be aware of the little fees that mount up: text, email, phone calls he or she will respond to you will soon add to the bottom line of your invoice. Have all of your questions written on paper and ready to communicate at one time if possible. Indeed, lawyers are happy to talk with you, but there time is valuable, and they must be paid in exchange for their time. You would want the same thing if someone was paying you for services or products that you may offer.

Ask, what are the attorney's credentials? Where did he or she study and how long has the attorney been practicing? How many cases have they won versus how many have they taken?

Proof:

First, you should have proof of what you are describing in events with images, text, documentation, recorded audio, and perhaps video if you have available. Be sure to ask an attorney for additional items that are admissible in the court room as proof of evidence.

Interview:

It is fair to have a well-rounded interview with the lawyer if possible. 

Type:

One detailed question you should remember, what type of attorney is he or she? Look for one that specializes in Family Law and or Domestic Violence Cases. The attorney can offer you more feedback because that's is their area of expertise.

Personal Check:

It's always good to do a "personality check." If you ended up not liking the attorney because of a personality difference, that might delay your case.

Association:

There are good attorneys and there are the other types- I've met both sides. The number for the Bar Association if needed is: (405) 416-7000. Keep it close and handy just in case. It's good to stand up in this area for yourself and if needed, advocates are willing to help make phone calls and ask questions or make reports on your behalf too.

Women Empowerment Solutions is dedicated to empowering women from domestic violence. 

Scripture from John 8:32 ESV "and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

Matthew 22:35 ESV "And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him."

Proverbs 18:17 ESV "The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him.