Sweets are more than sugar-filled

Finding the sweet spot going forth from any kind of abusive is investigative.

Once you have detached yourself from abuse, it's all a brand- new start, and you are wondering, what's next?

This depends on the person. A first rule- of thumb, be in check with yourself emotionally and spiritually, which means, getting in alignment with God.

Before you can do that, healing and forgiveness take place. God is the healer.

Spending time with God takes practice, obedience, and a willing heart if you aren't used to a relationship with Him.

Next,

What do you look for in a person, and what do you refrain from (toxic type-person)?

 It's like eating your favorite candy except it has coconut or caramel inside, and you are not big on either one.

There goes that box of chocolates.

Where do you find the sweetness you are looking for in a future guy?

Women Empowerment Solutions knows you can find the sweetness for sure on the onset of the meeting. But there is more to the beginning of a relationship than the first meetings.

It's good to learn the background of a person and their family. So, ask questions. Do they like their parents, and do they have a relationship with them? These kinds of questions will answer a plethora of gaps if there are any, and you will learn about their roots if they are from good stock. You will know more about pursuing and getting to know the person.

What about their characteristic traits?
 How are they? Do they reflect the fruits of the spirit? If so, how? If not, how come?

Take notice of the little bits which help you examine more about your future relationship with this individual.

Is this person friendly and polite with others besides yourself?

You should write your sweet spots on paper and see what is empowering to you.

Women Empowerment Solutions wants you to enjoy the sweet spots in life and the sweet places you will go.

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